PART 2
I explained that I wanted shorter hours.
Better scheduling.
The ability to delegate.
Fewer impossible last-minute requests.
I wanted to rest before pain forced me to stop.
But I also wanted to keep earning my own money.
I wanted somewhere to go each morning that still felt like mine.
Ernesto looked down at my hands.
“I thought if you closed the workshop, the problem would disappear.”
“The workshop wasn’t the whole problem,” I said. “Even if I closed it tomorrow, I would still need to decide what I wanted to do with my life.”
We didn’t hug when the session ended.
There was no sudden breakthrough.
We simply walked to the car and talked about traffic.
But something had changed.
For once, we had managed to say things that usually disappeared beneath accusations.
That evening, Ernesto cooked dinner.
When I entered the kitchen, there were already two plates on the table.
He didn’t announce how much effort he had made.
He didn’t wait for praise.
He simply asked:
“Do you want to eat now?”
I sat down.
We talked about ordinary things.
For that night, ordinary felt wonderful.
The workshop didn’t magically become easy either.
I sat down with Adriana and reviewed every service we offered.
Then I raised several prices.
The first customer who objected had been coming to me for years.
“But it’s only an alteration,” she complained.
I explained how many hours the job actually required.
She frowned.
Then she folded the dress and said she would find someone else.
My immediate instinct was to stop her.
To offer the old price.
To apologize.
Instead, I bit the inside of my cheek and let her leave.
Another long-time customer stopped coming that same week.
That night, I checked the numbers three separate times.
Part of me was terrified that I had confused setting boundaries with destroying my own business.
Adriana helped me review everything again.
She didn’t promise me everything would work out.
That helped more than false reassurance would have.
Between the money from the machine I had sold to Lucía, advance payments, and the expenses we had already covered, the workshop was still making a small profit.
Not much.
But enough.
We still had to be careful.
Bety began handling more finishing work.
Marisol took over the calendar with a firmness that initially made me uncomfortable.
One morning, a customer called with an “emergency.”
Without thinking, I agreed to take the job.
Marisol looked up.
“Where exactly are we putting it?”
I looked at the schedule.
There was nowhere.
In the past, I would have accepted the job anyway and expected everyone to stay late.
Instead, I called the customer back.
“I’m sorry. I answered too quickly. We can’t complete it by that date.”
I was embarrassed.
But that embarrassment was easier to live with than asking my employees to sacrifice their evenings because I didn’t know how to say no.
Slowly, my relationship with time began to change.
I started treating my own salary as a real workshop expense.
Before, I simply took home whatever amount seemed necessary and hoped there would be enough money left for everything else.
Now I knew exactly what I earned.
I knew how much needed to remain in the business.
And I knew how much I could contribute to our household.
When a family expense came up, my account was no longer automatically considered the solution.
Ernesto and I had to sit down and discuss it.
One afternoon, Lucía sent me a picture of the sewing machine she had bought from me.
It was positioned beside a window.
A box of thread sat nearby.
There was a new chair in front of the pedal.
“It already has a home,” she wrote.
I smiled.
A few days later, Lucía asked again whether I would teach sewing classes.
My old instinct would have been to reject the idea immediately because I was already too busy.
Instead, I thought about it properly.
How many hours could I dedicate?
What supplies would I need?
How much should I charge?
Then I called her.
“They would have to be paid classes, Lucía. That way I can reserve actual time for them.”
“Of course,” she said. “That’s why I asked.”
The following Tuesday, she arrived with two other women.
I prepared fabric scraps, needles, and a lesson I had mentally rehearsed all morning.
Within ten minutes, I discovered something important.
Knowing how to sew and knowing how to teach sewing were completely different skills.
I had to slow down.
Repeat myself.
Allow them to make mistakes.
One woman struggled several times before finally making a clean seam.
When she lifted the fabric and smiled, I saw something of my younger self in her.
I went home tired that afternoon.
But my hands hurt less.
And the tiredness felt different.
Meanwhile, Ernesto began sharing responsibility for his mother with his siblings.
It wasn’t perfect.
Rosa sometimes needed to change a visit.
Ernesto occasionally forgot something.
The woman they hired to help needed clearer instructions about her schedule.
A written plan didn’t magically solve everything.
But for the first time, everyone was participating.
One morning, Ernesto asked whether I could pick up something for his mother, Doña Elvira.
“I can’t today. I’m teaching.”
I waited for the familiar disappointment.
Instead, Ernesto checked his phone.
“I’ll ask Rosa.”
That was it.
No argument.
No cold silence.
No suggestion that my schedule mattered less.
I continued organizing my class materials, almost surprised by how simple the solution had been once my availability was no longer treated as the family’s default resource.
I still brought Doña Elvira food on Thursdays sometimes.
Some weeks I stayed to talk.
Other weeks I left the containers and headed to the workshop.
Eventually, she began asking a question before making plans for me.
“How much time do you have today?”
One Thursday, she took my hand.
“I like it better when you come because you want to.”
I stayed a little longer that afternoon.
She was right.
I liked visiting her much more when I wasn’t arriving with resentment.
Paola apologized to me too.
We were having breakfast together when she slowly stirred her coffee.
“I accepted Dad’s version too easily,” she said. “I thought he was trying to give you a break and you were refusing to let anything go.”
“I didn’t explain very well what I was trying to protect either.”
Paola shook her head.
“I should have asked you before deciding what I thought.”
I thanked her.
We didn’t spend the entire breakfast dissecting old mistakes.
We talked about her job.
Then we took a walk.
After that, something small changed in the way she invited me places.
Instead of assuming I was available, she would say:
“Are you free Sunday? I’d like to take you to lunch.”
Sometimes I was.
Sometimes I already had plans.
Sometimes I simply wanted to stay home.
And gradually, we learned that “not today” did not mean “I don’t love you.”
Ernesto also began finding things of his own to do.
A friend invited him to a group that repaired old furniture for a local organization.
At first, Ernesto claimed he was only going to watch.
He returned that afternoon with dust on his shoes and an excited story about a table they had restored.
The next week, he went again.
Soon he was talking about tools, projects, and the other men in the group.
He had found an enthusiasm outside our house that I hadn’t seen in him for months.
He also started fishing again.
One morning, I heard him moving around early.
I looked into the kitchen and found him pouring coffee into a thermos.
“Did I wake you?”
“A little.”
“Sorry.”
I smiled.
“Have a good time.”
He kissed me and left.
I went back to bed.
And I realized I liked this.
He could have his day.
I could have mine.
And afterward, we would have something new to tell each other.
Three months later, Ernesto mentioned San Blas again.
I was folding towels when he said the name.
My hands paused automatically.
He noticed.
“I wanted to ask if you might like to go for two nights.”
I waited.
“I haven’t booked anything,” he added.
That mattered.
Then he told me which dates he was considering.
He asked which ones worked for me.
He even said we could choose somewhere else if I preferred.
“Let me check the workshop.”
“Okay.”
And that was all.
He didn’t ask again that evening.
He didn’t pressure me for an immediate answer.
Two days later, I looked at accommodation options myself.
I found a small place I liked and showed him the pictures.
We checked the cost together.
Then we booked it.
When we arrived in San Blas, I still felt traces of the argument that had started everything.
Seeing the ocean didn’t erase the past.
But when I put down my suitcase and opened the window, I could say something honestly:
This time, I wanted to be there.
On the second afternoon, I took out my notebook.
Ernesto sat across from me with coffee.
“I want to read you something.”
He nodded.
I read him the page about choosing how much I worked.
The free afternoons.
The dance class.
I kept several pages to myself.
I wasn’t ready to share everything.
When I finished, I closed the notebook.
“What you did still hurts.”
My body immediately tightened, expecting him to defend himself.
Instead, Ernesto looked toward the window.
Then back at me.
“I know.”
He paused.
“Sometimes I wish we could say it’s over and never talk about it again. But I understand now that it doesn’t work that way.”
So we kept talking.
